Monday, January 25, 2010

What a difference a YEAR makes...

First off...a very HAPPY BIRTHDAY shout-out to my Tina-bina!!! Secondly, what a difference a year makes...she looks like a totally new person...LOVE IT!! So, it's been a crazy year my friend, but you were (are) strong, you stuck to your plan, and I bet by this time NEXT year, I will be saying this post all over again w/ other 'changes', LOL!! Here's to a wonderful new year, new life, NEW YOU!!!!




Tina last year on her 40th birthday party surprise!
Tina NOW...fabulous!!!


5 comments:

Kimmie said...

What a difference. Great job, Tina! Where is the montage? :P

Anonymous said...

LOL, the montages only are when you turn the BIG 40! She had hers done last year...it's on her home page if you never saw it...:)
MO

Anonymous said...

All of the sudden you were aware of this "plan". I don't consider it a strength to make plans for months to leave your husband, strength would have been finding a way to work things out and living up to your vows. The 40th birthday surprise was thrown by me, her husband, who she left. I also paid for her to go to the gym almost every night of the week (if that is even what she was doing) while I stayed at home with our child. It's just a coincidence that her new "friend" worked out at the same gym. In the meantime she "planned" on leaving me, while making sure all her debts were paid off by our joint account. Yes, she has changed plenty. She gets praised for her abandonment and adultery. She did a real good job of playing the victim for a year and making sure everyone knew exactly what she wanted them to know. She also did a real good job of sneaking around my back, keeping her phone calls private, never talking in front of me on the phone, hiding her emails/facebook antics from me. Miraculously calling from her mom's house every time I called suspicious her "workouts" were taking too long". It just so happens her "friend" (that I never met or heard of before in my life) lives right around the corner from her mom. No one knew anything though, one week after she leaves she is out with her "friend" hanging around with our mutual friends like there is nothing wrong with it. While alleged friends encouraged her to make a choice between them and her husband. Those same friends cover for her, and allow her me to be attacked in the most hateful of ways. It makes me wonder if the night you texted me, before Christmas, and said she was going to spend the night, if she was even there at all. No one knew anything although there had been inappropriate comments being posted on their facebook pages for months. Way to go gang, and good luck to Tina in her "new life" because she had it so rough in her old life. Apparently this is viewed as some big victory for everyone except her husband, and our two children. I'm told to just accept it and move on, and get over it. I get admonished for fighting for custody when she left and was going to give me "visitation" every other weekend. I raised her son from a young boy, provided him everything he needed, sent him to the best schools available and still provide for him. I'm glad(sarcasm) you can lol about it. Ask Liam, Cameron, and myself if we think the changes she made are funny. I know, I shouldn't be bitter about it, right? Well guess what, I'm more then bitter. She get's to tell you how she wanted to be friends with me still, while accusing me of being a pedophile, and propagating lies. While having her boyfriend contact me and accuse me of the same. She get's a free pass, while at the same time I get labeled crazy and mean. You have been spoonfed info and base your opinions on completely fed information.

Matthew

Anonymous said...

All of the sudden you were aware of this "plan". I don't consider it a strength to make plans for months to leave your husband, strength would have been finding a way to work things out and living up to your vows. The 40th birthday surprise was thrown by me, her husband, who she left. I also paid for her to go to the gym almost every night of the week (if that is even what she was doing) while I stayed at home with our child. It's just a coincidence that her new "friend" worked out at the same gym. In the meantime she "planned" on leaving me, while making sure all her debts were paid off by our joint account. Yes, she has changed plenty. She gets praised for her abandonment and adultery. She did a real good job of playing the victim for a year and making sure everyone knew exactly what she wanted them to know. She also did a real good job of sneaking around my back, keeping her phone calls private, never talking in front of me on the phone, hiding her emails/facebook antics from me. Miraculously calling from her mom's house every time I called suspicious her "workouts" were taking too long". It just so happens her "friend" (that I never met or heard of before in my life) lives right around the corner from her mom. No one knew anything though, one week after she leaves she is out with her "friend" hanging around with our mutual friends like there is nothing wrong with it. While alleged friends encouraged her to make a choice between them and her husband. Those same friends cover for her, and allow her me to be attacked in the most hateful of ways. It makes me wonder if the night you texted me, before Christmas, and said she was going to spend the night, if she was even there at all. No one knew anything although there had been inappropriate comments being posted on their facebook pages for months. Way to go gang, and good luck to Tina in her "new life" because she had it so rough in her old life. Apparently this is viewed as some big victory for everyone except her husband, and our two children. I'm told to just accept it and move on, and get over it. I get admonished for fighting for custody when she left and was going to give me "visitation" every other weekend. I raised her son from a young boy, provided him everything he needed, sent him to the best schools available and still provide for him. I'm glad(sarcasm) you can lol about it. Ask Liam, Cameron, and myself if we think the changes she made are funny. I know, I shouldn't be bitter about it, right? Well guess what, I'm more then bitter. She get's to tell you how she wanted to be friends with me still, while accusing me of being a pedophile, and propagating lies. While having her boyfriend contact me and accuse me of the same. She get's a free pass, while at the same time I get labeled crazy and mean. You have been spoonfed info and base your opinions on completely fed information.

Matthew

Anonymous said...

So very very sad....I lost my montage and thought I would try and find it here...and this is what I find under my birthday post! Sick that such postings are kept for all to see. And sad that such a person would see right through everything and not at the real picture.

I told myself I would no longer try and defend myself nor would I ever put such trash out on a public forum for all those who love this sort of crap. I'm divorced now - thank god - and no longer have to justify or defend my actions. But I will say this, think long and hard about all those days that instead of being my husband you were my enemy. I didn't get my tubes tied because I wanted to. You weren't worthy to be with me. And if I recall you weren't there; a choice you made. Our marriage was over...in fact most would think we didn't even have a marriage. You proclaim all this - seriously...Hmmm I make a darn good salary at times more than you made. So you had 3 good years...whoopie. You spent it on you...your things for you and your house. I put my own kids through school, and daycare and my own gym membership and most important I never had one bill joint with you our entire relationship so yes, I paid my own bills. I was smart not to have debt with you. You spent like there was no tomorrow. I MADE MY OWN MONEY...I MADE MY OWN MONEY....really??? Stop acting like you were the payor of all!!! You weren't!!! I made my own money at times clearing almost $70,000 but oh boy - you supported everyone, you paid for everything...you were the MAN of the house, right. Reminder - your house. And if I recall made very clear to my Cameron that it was your home and not his on many occassions while arguing with a teenage boy.

So, praise yourself for disrespecting a woman and leaving trash in a forum. Again, a reminder that I made the best decision of my life. Alcohol and Drugs ruined you. You sabataged your own marriage. And my friends at the time, hardly ever heard much of our stories. Why would I bore them. Your actions in front of family and friends told the whole story which is why it didn't come as complete shock when the decision was made. I didn't need to say much. My children will be fine in all this. They will live a life of normalcy. The rage, alcohol and drugs, and constant putting down of each other is gone now. The disrespect, the drinking and drugs (hopefully you will forever worry and look over your shoulder that you could be reported and won't bring that around my kids)and lonliness having relations an average of what 3 times a year is gone now...who lives like that! Not me! ...I wish you all the best! Find the girl that completes you....I was obviously not her..

EOM AND forever last post...everyone can move on now...